When I first tell people I’m sober, they don’t get it. They’re often confused or sometimes even a bit disappointed. They say, “Go on, just have one drink.”

I’ve become really comfortable not drinking. But I do believe my not drinking makes many other people feel uncomfortable. Drinking is so socially acceptable that it’s perfectly normal to go out and have drinks, meet up for happy hour, get together for a free flow brunch, or open a bottle of wine with family and friends at home.